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 There is a famous proverb "Health is Wealth" and that's so true. Roger that! The proverb ' Health is wealth ' means that one's  health  is the greatest  wealth . The definition of  health  is a state of a person's physical, mental, emotional, and social well-being. ... Every person must maintain good  health. Especially,  when it comes to married women, health is an important factor.  The family expects her to work and do all the household chores even when she is not well. This reminds me of my mother who used to do all work, cook food, do household chores even when she is not well without any support from the family. We have to break this stereotype where they expect a woman to work even when she is unwell for the sake of family. This applies to man as well, wher he is expected to go to work even if he is unwell for the sake of family.  In short,  if you are unhealthy, you would be a burden to the family.  So, ple...

 Have you ever been to the family court? If you are a married woman, then, yes, your in-laws house is a family court. The judge of the family is Father-in-law or Mother-in-law. In my case, its my Father in law. The lawyers are your brother-in-law or sister-in-law,  in my case, its my sister in law.  And you are the culprit in this court. The judge of the family is biased and pass double standard judgements which is not fair. That is, you, the culprit is always wrong and if the same thing their daughter does, it is right. And for the judge, his judgement is always right. No comments. Order, Order! The lawyer goes to any extreme to win his/her arguments.  The words used would be provoking and hurting. Still, they win by hurting you and that's why they are the laywer in the family court.  Now, we know why they are called in-laws, because they pass the laws in the family court and you have to follow their laws. Else, you are the culprit in the family court. The judg...

 Have any one of you found your Mr/Ms/Mrs.Perfect? No way! I bet you cant find any perfect person in this world except God. Then, why do you expect someone to be Mr/Ms/Mrs.Perfect when you know the fact that Nobody is perfect, including you. All human beings have flaws, there is none who is perfect. But nobody will stop you from being perfect! Note that. But, there are people who think or assume that they are Mr/Ms/Mrs.Perfect and these are the people who keep judging others without looking at their own flaws.  They are always right and whatever they say is right. For them others are always wrong. Its their perspective since they think that they are the Mr/Ms/Mrs.Perfect. Nobody is perfect! 

 Boundary - A line with a deep meaning. It is necessary to set boundaries to limit the bound with family, friends or relatives. There must be a limit in any relationships. Hence boundaries are required in our lives. According to hindu mythology, a line was set as a boundary for Sita by Lakshman which is known as the Lakshman rekha. The boundary was set to protect Sita but when she crossed, it was a danger.  Boundaries are meant to protect ourselves from danger. Set your boundaries, limit yourselves and donot allow anybody to cross the limits. Stay safe within your boundaries!

What if I Die today? I would be a loss only to my loved ones. All who spoke bad about me would speak good on this day. My photo would be seen on few whatsapp  statuses which lasts only for 24 hours. My loved ones would keep a prayer on 7th day. Gradually even they will forget and move on in their lives and remember me once in a year. The End!