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When you try to make everyone happy around you, You are being nice to them, but are you happy?  One of my best friends once told me "Dont be too nice to everyone" , You will be used by them. True that! Yes, I never took that advice in a wrong way, being nice means being used.  "Be Kind", but,  Dont "Be Nice". Note the difference.  People start taking you for granted when you are being nice to them. They start making use of you and you will never realise. Better late than never. If you are being nice to wrong people then you are also wrong. You are supporting them. Don't be nice to everyone. Be smart enough to notice the wrong ones. Being nice to everyone means you are not happy, you cant make everyone happy around you. All are not the same. There are people who can misuse you being nice to them. Being nice to everyone means you are trying to please everyone by being nice to them. Be yourself, Be Kind, But, never ever be nice to everyone, el

What comes to your mind when you hear the word period? Full stop? Or time? Or menstrual cycle?   Thanks to all feminists on social media. Nowadays only period related posts are hyped on social media and ads. My dear feminists, periods are normal for women. There is nothing to hype about it.  Its just a sign of puberty in women that occurs naturally every month. Even men go through changes. They also have problems, but they don't hype about it. Please stop posting such things on social media - Men dont bleed, yes, men dont bleed because they dont have uterus. Women have uterus and thats why they bleed. Its natural , thats how we are created. Accept the fact instead of posting shit to seek attention. Period (full stop) . - Philomina

 Save the Date! This is trending nowadays amongst couples who are getting married.  Just like how bullets are common nowadays on road so are these so called photographers with DSLR camera.  What next? Start these stupid events on social media and boom, there are hell lot of couples who fall into these traps. Open Facebook, Instagram or any other social media, you will find pre wedding shoots, Save the Date, post wedding shoots, pre pregnancy shoot. Omg! next, you may even find pregnancy shoot. We have come down to that level. Gone are the times where expenses for a wedding was just booking a hall, arrangements, food and just one photographer and a videographer. We would have watched the wedding video and seen the album only once.  But, now, even before wedding there are too many expenses. Save the date, pre wedding shoot. What nonsense? When couples spend so much for wedding, is it even worth?  What is this Save the Date all about? A new gen invitation? Or just another show

 Life has become a reel nowadays. You open Instagram, you find 'n' number of reels. Have you ever watched reels on any social media? It's very short and entertaining. People create reels just for fun, but, are they real? Nowadays people try to follow reels even in real life. Just going by trends.  People have started comparing their real lives with reels posted on social media.  Wow, look at their lives how they are enjoying. That's how we compare right when we scroll Facebook or any other social media. No, everyone has their own problems in real life. Its just a reel whatever we see on social media.  Never compare reel with real. - Philomina

Happy New Year! Are you really happy this new year? There are many who aren't happy this year due to the past burdens they have carried to this year. Are you thankful you entered this year? There are many who have lost their loved ones, who haven't entered this year. Are you healthy this year? There are many who have entered this year with health related issues. Are you wealthy this year? There are many who have lost jobs and suffering from poverty this year. Every New Year isn't new for everybody.