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Never ever ask or listen to others opinion about your life.  Since childhood we are used to listen to others opinion be it school, college, career, marriage.  When you are confident with what to do in your life then what is the need to ask or listen to the opinion of others? This creates confusion in your life which later leads to worry.  Your opinion matters the most in your life.  Be confident and never ever ask others opinion which will bother you in future.  There is a popular saying in Hindi - " Suno jag ka Karo Mann ka" which means listen to what the world says but do whatever your heart says.  Follow your heart not the flock!

During school days we had an eraser to undo the mistakes which we had written using pencil, later we used an ink eraser or whitener to undo the mistakes written using pen. Now we have the Ctrl-Z key to undo the mistakes done in computer or laptop.  How I wish there was Ctrl-Z key in our lives as well. I wish I could Ctrl-Z the career I selected.  I wish I could Ctrl-Z the branch I selected for engineering. I wish I could Ctrl-Z the marriage option in my life.  I wish I could Ctrl-Z my birth in this world.   I wish I could Ctrl-Z all the mistakes that happened in my life. I wish I could pause the special moments in my life.  I wish I could delete all the bad memories that happened in my life. I wish I could keep space bar in some relations. I wish I could Ctrl-X all the toxic relations. I wish I could Ctrl-C positive thoughts and Ctrl-V in my mind. I wish I could escape from this life.  I wish I could break all the negative bonds in my life....

Dear Ageing Parents, Are you ageing wisely?  As you age you are becoming more adamant, agree that as you get older you become like a child. But please listen to your children if they are right and trying to correct you. Agree that the Bible says to Children - Obey your parents. We did obey you and followed the way you wanted us to be. Now, it's your time, once children grow up they know what is right and wrong for you have taught them so, now, when they try to correct you if you are wrong, donot take them for granted.  Children will definitely take care of you but donot take them for granted. Why don't you listen to your children? Why do you start applying your own ways? Why do you become so adamant?  Why do you become self doctors and follow your own treatment? Your organs doesn't function same as before that's why doctors prescribe medicines for proper functioning, why dont you follow the doctor's prescription? Why are you so adamant in following your ...

Pappa, It's been an year since you left us, I have lost my only support, I miss the support to lean on your arms, only you make me feel better, I miss the support when you say come home, I am there for you, that was more than enough for me. I miss the support when someone is against me and you hold by my side always, I never felt lonely.I miss the support when i walk along with you holding your hands, I was safe.  I miss the support when I sleep on your lap even after growing up, you comfort me. I miss the support when I come back home and you clean my room so that there is no dust and i don't catch cold, only you care for me this way. Each and everything matters, you were my only support. Nobody can replace you. I miss you Pappa. 

My dearest Pappa, You are my role model, my hero, my all time support. You lived a simple and humble life. You spoke very less but that made sense.  My only support all the time is no more. I miss you so much. I really wish you were always there for me. You don't even remember your birthday, when I wish on your birthday you ask is it my birthday today? When I wish on father's day you just smile. Your smile has faded away.  I just wish I was like you, no grudges, always calm, maintain distance with people, no talks. Your insights were true, you would have already known about people, how they are.  You never gave up on work, you worked till end.  Always active, never seen you taking rest. Hope you are resting in peace now.  Love you loads and miss you so much. 

A woman is the biggest enemy of a woman.  True that!  Yes, it's always the woman who puts another woman down in this society by asking unwanted questions such as why you haven't got married yet? Why no kids after marriage? Do you have any problem? It's always the women who gets blamed by women to put you down.  I have never seen men asking such unwanted questions to women.  I was not happy to go to native recently fearing such questions from women and yes that happened. Only women looked down on me for not having kids, it's my choice, why should they look down on me and say ayyo?  I never encountered such questions from men but sadly women are the ones who put other women down and become their biggest enemy. One of my best friends boss is a woman. She is not letting my friend move to another position or project due to jealousy. She is making her suffer under her project. If she moves to another project then she will become equal to her level.Hence th...

2022 was year of loss for me. Starting with my cute little kittens, my beloved father and my cousin brother. Loss is a form of learning that teaches us how to be in the world without someone we love in it, a challenge of accepting the fact that we'll never again spend time with our loved ones.  But, time heals, I am grateful to all my near and dear ones who continued to be my support.  Thank you all! Thank God for all the blessings! Wish you all a healthy and prosperous new year!