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Go where you are Valued

They said - Go where you are valued, so I ran back to God. Why did I run back to God and not towards God?  God knew me since I was in the womb of my mother. When I came into this world , I met different people since my birth.  My mother, father, brother, friends , relatives, classmates, colleagues, neighbors, spouse.  But, do all of them value me? No! I didn't come across even one person in my life who gave value to me.  When I felt that, I had to run back to God who knew me. The only one God who valued me.  I had to run back to Him.  Go where you are valued!
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Intolerable In-laws

Tolerable means able to bear something when you are not able to bear anymore it becomes intolerable. 

If you are a tolerable person, you accept everything. For example, your room mate is very annoying and plays loud music which you dont like for a long time, even then if you can tolerate then you accept people unlike you which means you are broad minded , open thinking which constitutes to a tolerant behavior.

When does a person become intolerant? 
When you cannot accept people unlike you.
Who comes to your mind when you think of people whom you cannot accept anymore or vice-versa? Your  friend or your relative or  your lover or your spouse or your sibling or is it your parents ? No, never , then who?
Who doesn't accept you as their own son or daughter or sibling ? Yes, you got it right- In-laws. 

For in-laws,  all they want is a daughter in law who obeys their laws. If not, she is always on the wrong side even if their daughter or son is wrong and they are always right. Not sure when this attitude will change. This is because they don't accept you as their own hence vice versa happens. 

Now, how do they become intolerable in-laws? Because you are bearing all their taunts, comments and blame against you.
When you cannot bear it anymore they become intolerable and all issues begins right from there. You cannot raise your voice or emotions like how you do to your parents because they are not your parents, they are in-laws. We have to live in their laws.

Tolerate your intolerable in-laws!
Be broad-minded and accept your intolerable in-laws 😉

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