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Go where you are Valued

They said - Go where you are valued, so I ran back to God. Why did I run back to God and not towards God?  God knew me since I was in the womb of my mother. When I came into this world , I met different people since my birth.  My mother, father, brother, friends , relatives, classmates, colleagues, neighbors, spouse.  But, do all of them value me? No! I didn't come across even one person in my life who gave value to me.  When I felt that, I had to run back to God who knew me. The only one God who valued me.  I had to run back to Him.  Go where you are valued!

Girls are not Guests

 

Being born as a girl in our country which is rich in its culture is a burden to many families. 

True, when a girl child is born, parents just worry about savings which will be spent for her marriage. 

A married girl is considered as a guest in her own house after marriage since she is married to other family.  But, the truth is even in that family she will not be accepted as their own.

Now, the generation has changed where a girl child is no more a burden by making her independent focusing on her career and growth. Still, the so called society targets girls as burden to their family if she is not married.

What if she is not happy with her married life and comes to stay at her parents house? She will become a burden to them again. 

To all this generation and the future generations, if a girl child is born, be happy, make her independent by focusing your savings on her education and not her marriage. Build a small house for her where she cannot be a burden to any of the families. Where she can stay happily and independently! Yes , she will never be a burden to you if you make her independent.

Girls are not guests!


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