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 What do you mean when you say that a situation is under control? Means everything is normal?  Ok, now how about over control? How do you feel when you are controlled too much nothing but over control. Now, you decide whether you are under control or over control. Under control means where a situation can be managed or handled by yourself and is under your own control. Over control is being controlled by someone too much. This can become problematic and can even affect your mental health.  Being under control of yourself is fine but never ever let someone over control you which is dangerous that means you have no more control over yourself, you have let go everything which was under your control, your body, mind, soul, thoughts, everything that should have been under your control . Be under your control, never ever let someone over control you. Note the difference!

 There is a toy for kids available in the market- Talking Tom 😻 It is like a robot,  it repeats what you talk.  But, imagine if animals could talk in reality, how it would be. I have 2 cats, Mia- the mommy cat, my baby and Bunny - Mia's baby, my kiddo. They understand what I talk, even my tone changes they will understand,  but they talk in their language and guestures to make me understand what they want. If they come to kitchen , I understand that they are hungry and feed them,if they come to my room and purr, I understand  that they want some cuddles and pamper and they are about to sleep, if they play hide and seek and play with their toys, they want me to play with them and so on. Imagine if they could talk with us in our language, I know even if I scold them or hurt them by my words they will still love me, they will never scold me back for sure.  They will just talk about their needs and love us forever. Imagine if dogs could talk instea...

  April 29 is celebrated as International dance day.  What comes to your mind when you hear the word enjoy? What makes you happy? Most of us enjoy listening to music , but when the music is on, havent you tried to dance to the tunes? Or tap accordingly? That is what is enjoyment.  There was a movie named ABCD - Any Body Can Dance. True that, anybody can dance.  Dance for yourself, your happiness, nobody can stop you from dancing.  No matter what, just dance. Dance whenever you feel like, whenever you are broken, whenever you are happy, whenever you are hurt, whenever , whatever, just dance. Dance with your soul, dance in the rain, dance like a peacock, dance in your dreams, let your mind, body and soul be happy while you dance. Nacho nacho nacho nacho nacho nacho nacho. A recent song.  Just dance and be happy forever. Happy Dance Day!

Gone are the days where we had slam books, A notebook, passed between friends, for answering the set of questions that you prepared and sharing their advices and opinions.  One of my friends had written, "Trust None" as an advice to me. After reading it, I was curious to know why he wrote that. He said, its short but meaningful one which you will realise later. "Trust None". Yes, now I realized that his words were true. Trust none, not even your family.  One of my friends once told me that "You came alone into this world and will leave alone. Nobody will be there with you". So true,  nobody will be there with you forever. Never trust anybody.  Trust None but God.

Stop Oversharing your personal details on social media. Stop Oversharing to people who tend to be nice to you. Stop Oversharing to your partner as well, respect your privacy. Have your own personal space.  Stop Oversharing, It is not healthy for you. Stop Oversharing,  set your boundaries. Stop Oversharing,  people may make use of it. Stop Oversharing,  have some privacy in your life Stop Oversharing,  you will be judged. Stop Oversharing,  no matter what, have your own personal space for yourself . Stop Oversharing,  sadly, Oversharing may ruin the relationship.  Stop Oversharing,  you dont have to share everything,  at the end you dont have to hide anything.  Stop Oversharing,  you will be misunderstood.  Stop Oversharing, your privacy is valuable.  Stop Oversharing,  lead a healthy and peaceful life.

 What do you mean by compromise ? Mutual agreement? Or is it just 1 way and not 2 way. Why is it always girls asked to compromise? Be it anywhere, family, career, relationships. Why does the so called society expect girls to compromise always?  Any family issue, girls are asked to adjust and compromise always. Why?  Even if the girl is not in the wrong side, she is forced to compromise. Not fair.  We still live in a society where men can do anything but still women have to compromise and adjust whatever nature men are of. This is utter nonsense.  Adjustments and compromise will work 2 way and not one way. Dear girls, never compromise or adjust when you are right. Dont listen to the society, listen to your inner voice. Never ever compromise when you are right!

Repression is like supression which later leads to depression.  Didn't get it?  Have you ever repressed your emotions?  Some people express their emotions openly. Others tend to hide them. But hiding your emotions doesn’t mean you’re repressing them. Note the difference.  Repressed emotions can be a way to protect your mind from painful situations.  Still didn't get it?  A husband shows emotions on wife by raising voice when in anger but vice versa is not allowed or is the wife's emotions being suppressed?  If we raise voice in anger then something is wrong with us, so have we been taught the same way or are we supressing our emotions due to fear?  We think a lot to avoid such situations so we repress our emotions. We repress our anger, emotions, why? You may do this for fear of damaging your positive self-image. Or, you might see yourself as always in control of how you feel. Yes, is someone controlling your feelings as well...