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They said - Go where you are valued, so I ran back to God. Why did I run back to God and not towards God?  God knew me since I was in the womb of my mother. When I came into this world , I met different people since my birth.  My mother, father, brother, friends , relatives, classmates, colleagues, neighbors, spouse.  But, do all of them value me? No! I didn't come across even one person in my life who gave value to me.  When I felt that, I had to run back to God who knew me. The only one God who valued me.  I had to run back to Him.  Go where you are valued!
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Marriage=3M


Marriage=3M (Mind, Mend, Mould)
We have come across too many equations in our theoretical life, be it physics, mathematics or chemistry; there are equations which have been derived from series of steps. I remember only few of those equations, Einstein’s equation of mass equivalence E=mc2 and some speed and velocity equations. Are we using these equations now? For me, it’s of no use, but may be for some scientists it’s useful for rocket science.
We studied these equations just for our educational purpose, now; let’s see how we can make use of equations in our practical life. As mentioned, equations are derived by following series of steps; in the same way, to balance equations in our practical life, we have to follow series of steps. Each of us have our own way of deriving the equations, for e.g. according to India’s so called photo op PM, Mr.Narendra Modi or Modiji, in the equation (a+b)^2=a^2+b^2+2ab, the extra “2ab” is India and Canada! He could derive it so easily in his speech, but only we know the difficulty to derive this equation by following “n” number of steps; I still remember the satisfaction I used to get while deriving the formula and the last step of writing LHS=RHS and hence proved and 2 underlines beneath it! Wow, what a feeling it was! 
Now, let’s see how we can derive equations in our practical life which consists of 3 stages namely,
·         Birth
·         Marriage
·         Death
Those who haven’t come across the in between stage i.e. “Marriage” are either saints or priests or nuns or single or free or lucky. For those who have come across or going through this stage, there are too many equations to be derived in their respective ways by following the right steps. What is Marriage? Its union between 2 people, commonly it’s between man and woman, but, now some communities has changed its meaning. Here also, marriage is defined as an equation, union between 2 people. There is a song in Malayalam, from the movie “Kastoorimaan”, it goes like this: 1+1=2 is Maths, 1+1=1 is Love; Yes, the equation is right! 1+1=1 is Love; this is the first step to be followed in a marriage. 
Next, let us derive an equation for marriage; Marriage=3M i.e. Mind, Mend and Mould. How do we derive this?  
1.       First, let’s see the first M-Mind means to mind your words.  Your words have the power to either make or break a relationship. So, mind your words!
2.       Second M-Mend means to mend your soul. Mend means to repair or correct. Nobody is perfect! When 2 souls become one, there will be faults, always we tend to mend each other, correct others instead of ourselves. So it’s better to mend ourselves, Mend your soul!
3.       Third and the final M stands for Mould means to mould your thoughts.  Mould means to shape; Shape your thoughts in a positive way which will shape your relationship! Never assume things, since assumptions leads to misunderstanding, instead, communicate your thoughts, your feelings with each other which will mould the relationship!
These 3 steps has to be followed to derive the equation Marriage=3M! LHS=RHS. Hence, proved.  


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